Written by Matthew Naismith
We have a solicitor in the family that told
me to stay with what I am doing. I was considering changing tact and become
more tactful. Tactful meaning: Having or
showing a sense of what is fitting and considerate in dealing with other
people.
Expressing a sense of honest truth, which
is often the opposite of desired truths, is going to be offensive to other
people who are expressive of desired truths, there is no way around this. The
only way around this is to stop expressing open honest truth which I nearly did
on a few occasions. Often being black is offensive to white people. How do you
stop being who you truly are? Also, just
because you are black and this offends whites, it is not you who is being
offensive, it is them. Just because other people are offended by honest
truth, doesn't mean you, the black, are being offensive and tactless.
This reminds me of the times I spent on
youme, especially the group called Our
Humanity on youme, that allowed name calling, endorsed people not to stay
on topic, therefore show deliberate disrespect, endorsed, not only robust
discussions /debates but argumentative exchanges, etc. Not everyone is treated
like this on youme or our humanity, only those who are of honest truth instead
of desired truths it would seem. Atheists of course desire that we are all born
atheistic which I disproved. I am not
against atheism, but I am not supportive of radical deliberate ignorance based
on desired truths. I was treated as though I was black on youme, a man of
honest truth as much as I can be.
Yes, our humanity also includes desired
truths. In all honesty, desired truths seem to be the main stay of our reality
at present, a more preferable truth in direct opposition to honest truth it
would seem. So should have I accepted such a rebuttal, not just from the
moderators of our humanity but youme as a whole?
Our humanity means our humanity as a whole,
not just parts of humanity that are more desirable. I was often accused by the
people of desired truths that I didn't like my views being questioned; this is
while I was the only one presenting evidence to my claims. Of course the more
evidence I supplied, the more prevalent the unsupported accusations become,
quite excessively at times. They actually had no other recourse, in their
mind.
If you are expressive of honest truth in a reality primarily based on desired
truths, being expressive of honest
truth is going to lead to disagreements. Sadly, often these disagreements lead
to a person of desired truths to turn on you, at times quite viciously. I would
have to honestly say that the people who I have had a disagreement with and
turned on me, are most often primarily expressive of desired truths. Why are
they so offended, especially when I supplied evidence to my honest truths?
In my mind, no matter what, never stop
freely expressing honest truth in our humanity, even when by doing so
we have to sacrifice our own harmony for a short time.
It
is not a fight, but a right......Mathew G
