Written by Mathew Naismith
Are negative people untrue where positive
people are true? This would be like saying that people who have experienced and
suffered extreme trauma are untrue people, while the people who have not
suffered trauma are true people. All traumas have some kind of negative affect
to them, this doesn't mean that all the people who have suffered from traumas
are untrue, in actuality quite the opposite. You are simply being what the
trauma has created. Even if you are still suffering from the trauma instead of
learning from the trauma, you are still a true person in relation to the trauma
experienced. An untrue person would simply try to make out that they are
positive when in actuality they are still suffering. How many suicide victims
seem happy but are in fact suffering big time. When you are untrue to yourself,
you are untrue to everyone else.
Now, how many people are suffering in
relation to what is going on in the world at present? This is while we seem
positive only because we avoid the negatives as much as possible. So avoiding
the negatives in the world to be positive will instantly make the negatives
simply vanish? In all honesty, all this has created in past history is more of
the same. In truth, being untrue to ourselves in this way simply encourages the
very same negatives we are trying to avoid to flourish even more so, thus in
turn creating an untrue reality.
People like me don't try to attract
positive people, if you are suffering, show that you are suffering even if this
seems to you or other people to be negative therefore of an untrue person. Be
what you are suffering from but learn from this suffering instead of continuing
to suffer from suffering. In other words learn from our present reality and
stop suffering from this reality by ignoring the negatives to be or seem
positive.
In all honesty, being positive or negative
takes a huge amount of energy to obtain and sustain, especially in a critically
judged negative reality. How many people are suffering even more so when we
ignore the negatives to be positive? That is a huge waste of energy through
simple neglect and abuse of energy. The trick in dealing with negatives to be
positive, is to stop suffering from the negatives by seeing them as a negative
to avoid to be positive. Instead, learn to not judge what is and isn't negative
and positive, therefore, what is and isn't true or of a true person.
So what makes a true person? A person who
is primarily honest with themselves. If you are suffering from trauma either
collectively or individually, let it be what it actually is instead of what you
desire it to be. Try to do this in the absence of positive and negative
judgment. When you do this, start to learn from your experiences instead of
suffering from your experiences. Simply being aware of this will certainly
start you on the way of being of self-honesty, therefore a truer person to
yourself and others around you.
So how do you attract people who are truer
to themselves and others? Being in the presence of self-honesty, while in the
absence of negatives and positives, will instantly have an affect on the people
who are not of self-honesty around you. Self-dishonesty or being untrue cannot
exist within the same immediate space as self-honesty, expressions of
self-honesty simply disperses dishonesty thus allowing self-honesty, truer
people, the space to flourish in. It is not that you are attracting truer
people exactly; it is that you have more space in your life for self-honest
people to flourish and express themselves freely in. See it as closing one door
thus allowing another door to open. One door, one reality, has to close for
another reality, another door, to open.
"Who
are the people that positive
people
can help the most?
What
people are often avoided the
most
by positive people?
In
all honesty,
how
positive is this really?
Only
in the absence of positives and
negatives
can the neediest be attended to!!"
